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Raised by Resilience: How a Motherโ€™s Love shaped a Future Officer

Seeing his mother in sweat and working tirelessly inside his school canteen and serving snacks to students with a big smile urged ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—Ÿ๐—œ๐—–๐—˜ ๐—–๐—”๐——๐—˜๐—ง ๐—๐—”๐—ฌ ๐—–๐—›๐—˜๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—˜๐—ฅ ๐—š๐—ข๐—ฌ๐—›๐—” ๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—–๐—”๐—•๐—˜๐—ฅ๐—ง๐—˜ to pursue greater heights and make a better life for his mother.

PCDT Jay Cheever Goyha Rocaberte hailed from the City of Gentle People, Dumaguete City, Negros Oriental. He was raised along with his five other siblings by his single mother who worked as a canteen concessionaire in his school.

โ€œ๐™Ž๐™ž ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ข๐™–, ๐™ฃ๐™–๐™œ๐™—๐™š๐™—๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™– ๐™จ๐™– ๐™จ๐™˜๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™ก ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™š๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™–๐™™๐™– ๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ค. ๐™Ž๐™ž๐™ฎ๐™– ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ข๐™–๐™œ-๐™ž๐™จ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™—๐™ช๐™ข๐™ช๐™—๐™ช๐™๐™–๐™ฎ ๐™จ๐™–๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ข ๐™ฃ๐™– ๐™ข๐™–๐™œ๐™ ๐™–๐™ ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™™. ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™๐™ž๐™ง๐™–๐™ฅ ๐™จ๐™ค๐™—๐™ง๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™๐™ž๐™ง๐™–๐™ฅ ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ง๐™ค ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ ๐™–๐™ฎ๐™– ๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฎ๐™–.โ€

Since then, it has been his childhood dream to wear the uniform of those who put their lives on the line to provide safety and security in the community. Most of all, it was his dream to provide a better life for his mother, who never ceased to work hard in order to provide for their needs.

However, their struggles didnโ€™t pause on weekends. When the school canteen closed, he took it upon himself to continue helping his mother in any way he could. Together with his brother, he would bring trays of empanadas and go out to sell them, sometimes under the heat of the sun or under the threat of rain. We walked from place to place, but most often, he found himself at crowded basketball courts, hoping to earn just enough to bring home something for the day.

He was just a student, but he knew he had a role to play. Selling wasnโ€™t easy, facing rejection, carrying the weight of his hopes with every tray, but he kept going, because every coin he earned was a small victory for his family. He wasnโ€™t just trying to sell snacks. He was trying to ease even a little of the burden his mother carried every single day.

โ€œ๐™Ž๐™ž ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™…๐™–๐™ข๐™š๐™จ, ๐™ฎ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฎ ๐™จ๐™–๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ข๐™–๐™œ๐™ ๐™–๐™ ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™™ ๐™ฎ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฃ๐™–๐™œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ง๐™–๐™จ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ ๐™ค ๐™ฃ๐™– ๐™ข๐™–๐™œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ก๐™ž๐™จ. ๐™‰๐™–๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™– ๐™ ๐™ค ๐™ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฎ๐™– ๐™ฃ๐™–๐™œ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ก๐™—๐™ž ๐™จ๐™– ๐™ ๐™ค๐™ข๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™™๐™–๐™™, ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™– ๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฎ๐™– ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™—๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ค ๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™—๐™ž๐™ก๐™ž ๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™–๐™ฃ.โ€

Despite not being privileged in life, he saw in his brother immense determination and perseverance to make it in life. He realized that the size of oneโ€™s dream was not measured by where they had started, but by how they were willing to fight for it.
PCDT Rocaberteโ€™s journey was not square and easy. He first tried applying to join the BSPS Class of 2024 but failed in the medical phase. Albeit feeling heartbroken, unfit, and incompetent, he took courage to try again, and later on the 1st day of June 2021, he became an official member of the SINAGLAWIN Class of 2025.

โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ซ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜บ, ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ. ๐˜ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ช๐˜ต. ๐˜๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ด, ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜บ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ต ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜บ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ โ€“ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜บ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ. ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ.โ€

Source:ย Kalasag-PNPA Corps Publication

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